It might be a relationship ending. A divorce, a breakup, a friendship that ran its course. The life you built with or around someone else suddenly needs to be rebuilt as just yours. And you're not entirely sure who that person is without them in it.

It might be a career change. A job that no longer fits, a layoff that came out of nowhere, a success that should feel like enough but doesn't. The identity you built around what you do feeling less solid than it used to.

It might be a move. Leaving a city, a community, a version of yourself that belonged to a particular place. Chicago can do that. Logan Square and Avondale hold people in specific ways. Leaving, or arriving, or arriving and not quite belonging yet, is its own kind of grief.

It might be a cultural transition. Navigating the space between the world you came from and the world you are building. The particular weight of being first generation, of moving between languages and expectations and versions of yourself that don't always translate cleanly into each other.

It might be quieter than any of that. A slow drift away from the person you thought you were becoming. A sense that somewhere along the way you made a series of decisions that added up to a life that doesn't quite feel like yours. Nothing dramatic happened. But something shifted and you haven't been able to name it.

Between chapters is disorienting because the old structure that told you who you were is gone and the new one hasn't arrived yet. The roles, the routines, the relationships that gave shape to your days. Without them the questions get loud. Who am I now. What do I actually want. What comes next and what do I leave behind.

Those questions deserve real answers. Not strategies for getting through. Real answers.

Between chapters therapy with me starts with slowing down enough to actually feel what is happening rather than managing your way through it.

Most people in transition are in problem solving mode before they have finished grieving. Planning the next thing before making sense of the last one. That efficiency has a cost. The unprocessed pieces don't disappear. They show up later, in the next relationship, the next job, the next version of the same stuck place.

We start by making room for what is actually there. The grief, the fear, the relief, the anger, the excitement, the guilt about the excitement. All of it is information. All of it belongs in the room.

From there we get curious about identity. Transitions are disorienting because they strip away the roles and structures that tell us who we are. Without the job, the relationship, the city, the role, who are you? That question sounds frightening and is actually one of the most clarifying things a person can sit with. We sit with it together.

Narrative work is central here. The story you have been living inside often becomes most visible at the moment of transition, when the plot changes and you can suddenly see the arc you have been on. We examine that story honestly. Which parts of it were genuinely yours and which parts were inherited, absorbed, performed because they were expected. That examination is the foundation for building something more intentional.

The body is part of this work too. Transitions register in the nervous system, in the physical experience of uncertainty and change. Learning to stay present in your body during periods of upheaval rather than disconnecting from it is some of the most grounding work we do.

My approach is warm, genuinely present, and attuned to the specific ways that cultural context shapes how transitions are experienced. A first generation woman navigating a career change carries different weight than the mainstream narrative about professional pivots acknowledges. We work with your actual experience, not the generic version of it.

Transitions that go unprocessed don't resolve on their own. They calcify into patterns. The grief that wasn't felt becomes the anxiety that won't lift. The identity question that wasn't answered becomes the chronic sense of not quite belonging anywhere. The story that wasn't examined becomes the invisible script running the next chapter.

When the in-between gets worked through properly something opens up. The next chapter gets built on something real. The choices feel more like yours. The person you are becoming starts to feel less like someone you stumbled into and more like someone you chose.

Most of the people I work with in transition are not falling apart. They are between things. The old structure is gone and the new one hasn't arrived yet and that gap is genuinely uncomfortable. It is also, when you slow down enough to work with it honestly, where the most important work of a life gets done. This is a space where that changes.

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