Anxiety therapy with me starts with the body before it starts with the thoughts.

Most anxiety treatment focuses on the content of the anxious mind. The thoughts, the catastrophic predictions, the cognitive distortions. The thoughts matter. But anxiety lives in the nervous system before it lives in words. It's in the physical experience of activation, of bracing, of never quite feeling safe enough to let go. Working with those somatic patterns directly, learning to recognize what anxiety feels like in the body before it takes over completely, and building the capacity to come back to regulation, is some of the most immediate and lasting work we do.

From there we get curious about the script itself. Not to argue with it or reframe it into something more positive. To get genuinely curious about where it came from and what it's been trying to do. Anxiety almost always has a function. It's protecting something, managing something, trying to prevent something that felt genuinely threatening at some point. When we understand what that is the script stops feeling like an enemy and starts feeling like information.

We look at the parts running the anxiety. The director who is never satisfied with the performance. The understudy who is always prepared for everything to go wrong. The stage manager who has to have every contingency covered before anyone can relax. These parts developed for real reasons. They've been working hard for a long time. When they feel genuinely understood rather than overridden they don't have to work so hard anymore.

Mindfulness is part of this in a way I find essential. Not as a relaxation technique but as a genuine practice of presence. A lot of anxiety is about being everywhere except where you actually are. In the future catastrophizing, in the past replaying, in the imagined audience judging. Mindfulness brings you back into the actual scene. The one that's actually happening. Which is almost always more manageable than the ones the script has been writing.

My approach is warm, creative, genuinely playful when the work allows it, and deeply curious about the specific script running for you specifically. Not the generic version. Yours. I am a supervised Learning Therapist working toward my LMFT, which means I bring real curiosity, fresh perspective, and the full support of clinical supervision to every session. It also means my rate is significantly more accessible than a fully licensed therapist. Anxiety therapy that actually helps shouldn't itself be a source of financial stress.

Anxiety that goes unaddressed doesn't stay the same size. The script gets longer. The avoided situations multiply. The world gets smaller and the production gets louder. The exhaustion of performing for an audience that exists only in your head compounds over time into something that shapes everything.

When anxiety is understood and worked with rather than fought against something opens up. The script quiets. Not all at once but steadily. The body starts to feel like a safer place to be. The decisions start coming from clarity instead of fear. The moments that are supposed to feel good actually do. You stop performing the life and start actually living it. The stage is still there. But you're the one directing now.

Anxiety brings a lot of people to therapy who would not otherwise describe themselves as struggling. They're functioning, creating, showing up. But underneath it all there's a script running that makes everything harder than it needs to be. That script deserves to be examined honestly and gently. Not to silence it but to understand it well enough that it stops running the show. You didn't write it. You don't have to keep performing it. Together we'll set goals, then set sails and explore.

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